Wednesday, July 30, 2025

Kruse's Keys: Read "Rumors of Another World" To Abide With the One Who Made You

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"Rumors of Another World: What On Earth Are We Missing?” is a weighty book and not one you can breeze through quickly but rather calls the reader towards a meditative examination of how society models and sells life today is the antithesis of the contemplative path God intended.  

The book seeks to answer three basic questions: 


  1. What does the current world tell us about heaven?

  2. Why is the world so bad then?

  3. Where are the natural + supernatural intersections - and what’s their effect on our daily life?

Author Philip Yancey seeks to remind us that the world we live in can not just be fully natural or supernatural–it’s not an either/or choice.  Rather our everyday interactions bleed over into the supernatural world. When we act kindly and selflessly, he calls this ‘hallowing’--describing the term as releasing the holy sparks present in God's creation.

Ultimately he calls us to an upside down world view that is others focused and which seeks to emulate Jesus’ life.  He gives some “easy” examples that call us to serve those and seeks situations that we get nothing out. Specifically: seek those whose egos need stroking (as opposed to those who stroke yours), find people with few resources and give them yours, look for the weak and the sick–and love them. 

One of the authors’s most powerful (and surprising) observations was his comparison of romantic love to that of God’s love for us.  This one stuck with me and is a riff off of C.S. Lewis colleague Charles Williams’ “romantic theology”.  If we think of how we felt when we were first falling in love and we had “the ability to see the best in one other person, to ignore & forgive flaws, to bask in endess fascination"-well, that  is how God views us and how in heaven we will view everyone else there.”  That’s a wild thought–this idea that just how we can’t get the person we’re falling in love with out of our head, the way they permeate every thought–that’s how God thinks about us–but all the time.  That should serve as both encouragement and a reminder of our value to him–the creator of the universe can’t get us out of his mind.  




Key Quotes and Notes

10

- what does the current world tell us about heaven?

- Why is the world so bad then?

- Natural + supernatural intersections - and the effect on our daily life.

18

What do we miss on a daily basis due to our own lack of faith?

Encounter > reduction

You can't quantify God's creation- the beauty of it.


31

"A society that denies the supernatural usually ends up elevating the natural to supernatural status."


33

Today what was called idolatry is now masked as addictions


38

The prayer-> God, take my many longings and show me them at the Holy source that is their origin and which only God can order.


41

George Orwell quote-o we have cut away our souls by our disconnection with the hallowed.


43

"We forget that what is to us an extension of sight is to the rest of the world a peculiar and arrogant blindness." Flannery O' Connor


44

Nature humbles us to God's power and might and how frail we are.


51

Idea of "hallowing" → releasing the holy sparks present in God's creation.


56

Mystics/saints understand the secret is to live one moment at a time


57

Why meditate/contemplate? To see this life as a unity of both worlds-as God sees it combo of practiced repetition and rare revelation.

Author makes a very interesting parallel between the idea of romantic love and that this is the way God thinks of us. Where he can't get us out of his mind. This feeling we experience is one of those echoes-those rumors of the heavenly.


62

[Christianity] applies a dose of realism to the chaos of human longings... promises an ordering of life...


68

Marriage as God's great tool to form our character.

Every relationship is a tool to build our character


70

Ordinary acts of faith turn us from self- obsession so that our lives become reflections of Jesus-so while they may sometimes feel rote-PRESS ON, GET THE REPS.


CH. 5 DESIGNER SEX


81

By desecralizing sex-the Church steals away a powerful pointer towards the CREATOR.


89

Romance-particulary the initial bloom of it gives us "the ability to see the best in one other person, to ignore & forgive flaws, to bask in endess fascination" > This is how God views us!!! And how in the 'Kingdom to come' we will view everyone else there. -from Ciates" Williams"


93

Sex (the idea of it, the desire of it) brings into marriage where it instead teaches us about sacrificial love.


103

God put restlessness in us for a purpose to beckon us to him but also aware of its danger


105-6

In U.s. today the 7 deadly sins have become-have been distorted into virtues:

Pride - idolizing the proud

Envy - advertising is centry to creating it

Anger - Public outrage is all the rage

Greed- Hustle, prepare for retirement"

Sloth- Retire early

Gluttony- Big gulp trend-'more is more'

Lust - scantily clad women has become the norm. .


108

QUOTE: "There are two ways to get enough, one is to continue to accumulate more & more. The other is to desire less."


110

Greed (as is all sin) is rooted in disorder.


116

Original sin must be acknowledged and balanced w/ original grace!


132-3

One of greatest health hazards? DIVORCE.

Increases of early death from stroke, heart disease, hypertension, cancer...

Double the suicide rates

Divorced non-smoker = same health risks as married person who smokes a pack a day.


143

Sin is like a force field we can't explain or resist.


144-5

Natural condition is sin.

Like having a 3 - story mansion but livin in the dank cellar (Kierkegaard, Suren)


145

Quote: "Man is the only animal that blushes. Or needs to." Twain

The cycle: sin → pain → guilt → repentance → consequences > restoration.

REF: Psalm 51 & AA


157

Ex. of mom who 'loved' cleaning up her son - or so he thought. In fact, the cleaning was an excuse to hold him.

Mess (sin) is just part of getting close to him this is what it is like w/ God.


166

Quote: "Without God, everything is permitted." Dostoyevsk

Stalin era practice of having school children pray to Stalm for candy (and then giving them the candy).


173

To watch: "To End All Wars" on the life of Ernest Gordon in WWII (2001 film)


184

A supernatural, spiritual world is the only is the only rationale to explain so much madness in the world: children starving, snipers, homeless pop Hn in a rich country like v. 5. A- etc...


187

The point of the book: the world is not "either/or "→ i. e., not just natural or supernatural. Our everyday actions have supernatural consequences-even things like loving the sick and needy.


200

Seeing both worlds should force us to look at humanity in its seeming imperfection differently-to go beyond the surface w/ ppl. (e. g. Elephant Man Ex.)


MONEY, HARDSHIP, DEATH


202

Our objective: world upside ↓ view

Seek those whose egos need stroking

Find people with few resources

Look for the week, the sick

in these things we are emulating Jesus *


210

Giving should not be uptight-worried about every tax deduction.

No, we are called to hilarious, cheerful giving

Giving freely w/ no recognition


215

"When 2.5M ppl. die in Africa each year from AIDS, that's not a cause, that's an emergency"' Bono


224

"Evil is overcome by good only if the injured party absorbs it, refusing to allow it to go any further." YANCEY


237

Maybe the world is counterculture and the Kingdon of God is the culture.

Jesus' normal pattern of life couldn't be accepted

Follow God's faintest whisper requires solitude and total obedience.


239

Jesus' call to us to lose our life for his sake in order to find our life seems paradoxical but is really about every day acts of obedience.

It also means discomfort

ecstasy- greek-ek stasis-to stand apart from-to get outside our bodily desires


Sunday, July 13, 2025

Kruse's Key: Read "Ruthless Elimination of Hurry" to Rediscover Time and Rest

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My copy of Mark Comer’s The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry embarked on a long journey before it finally found its way into my hands to read. Purchased some three years ago in Italy, it sat unread on my bookshelf there, then traveled with me to Arlington, and finally made its way down here to Brazil, where I at last picked it up. I deeply regret the dust i let gather on its cover as its proved to be one of the most important and influential (I hope) books I’ve read in the last decade.

Comer is quick to acknowledge that he is not an expert but is instead on a journey himself to eliminate hurry from his life. The book is a product of decades of conversations with mentors and biblical study.  In one conversation with another pastor/mentor, that man shares some bad news:

"The #1 problem you will face is time. People are just too busy to live emotionally healthy & spiritually rich & vibrant lives."

He challenges us to strike phrases like "Oh good, just busy" from our vocabulary, revealing that hurry isn't merely a disordered schedule but, as pastor John Ortberg suggests, "a disordered heart." He calls this ailment "hurry sickness"--how do you know if you have it?  As you might surmise from the following list of symptoms, most of us have it:  irritability, restlessness, emotional numbness, workaholism, and a slipping of spiritual disciplines, ultimately leading to isolation. The book’s core research question—"What is all the distraction, addiction, and pace of life doing to our souls?" The answer isn’t pretty and across society it’s only getting worse–as the violence of hurry destroys our bodies, children, spirits, communities, and the earth.  

The solution, Comer argues, lies in a "slowdown spirituality," a deliberate embrace of ancient spiritual disciplines (see also Tyler Staton’s “Praying Lke Monks, Living Like Fools"–my review is here). He emphasizes that "attention is the beginning of devotion," and "what you give your attention to is the person you become." Time, our universal limitation, demands intentionality, and sometimes, as Anne Lamott wisely puts it, "No' is a complete sentence"—a thousand "no's" for every "yes."  What we’ve seen in the U.S. over the last century is an inversion of money and time.  Unlike in the past where leisure and rest were valued, we spend time to get more money.

Comer’s Five key practices:

  • Silence and Solitude: Jesus himself "needed time in a quiet place." Comer notes that a lack of silence and solitude creates a felt distance from God, leading us to seek intimacy elsewhere. Our  alone time with God is the foundational important spiritual discipline, enabling us to become "people of substance who have thought things out and have deep convictions."

  • Sabbath: This isn’t about a day but a stopping.  A stopping to delight and taste that the Lord is good. It requires intentional preparation, saying "no" to many good things to say "yes" to the best thing. It's a recognition that "I have enough," a joyful feast where we "feast, play, dance, have sex, sing, pray, laugh, tell stories, read, paint, walk, and watch creation in its fullness."  This was hands down the biggest change I needed in my life. 

  • Simplicity: In a culture where "atheism hasn't replaced cultural Christianity, shopping has," Comer urges us to declutter our lives physically, guided by William Morris's principle: "Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful." This involves considering the true cost of items (e.g., sweatshops, sustainability etc.), avoiding impulse buys, sharing, and making giving a habit.

  • Slowing: Put the phone down  and make yourself wait on purpose. From driving the speed limit and getting in the long line to making our phones "dumb" and setting time limits for social media, Comer provides actionable steps to implement this. 

Comer's vision is compelling: "We achieve inner peace when our schedule is aligned with our values," as Steven Covey noted. It’s about adopting the "lifestyle of Jesus," who was "rooted to the moment," unbothered by interruptions, and offered equipment (a "yoke" of teaching) rather than an escape from our burdens.  Being interruptible has been the hardest thing for me but also the biggest change I need to make in my life.

Ultimately, "The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry" isn't just a book; it's an invitation.  An invitation to Silence, Solitude, Simplicity, Slowing, and Sabbath to finding God in the present and finding true and lasting joy in his presence.

KEY QUOTES:


Xv "Let God take care of the world"  -Ortberg


21 "The #1 problem you will face is time. People are just too busy to live emotionally 

healthy & spiritually rich & vibrant lives." 


53 "Attention is the beginning of devotion." 

  • Mary Oliver 


54 "What you give your attention to is the person you become." 


55 "Hurry is not a disordered schedule. Hurry is a disordered heart." -Ortberg 


70 ' 'No' is a complete sentence." -Anne Lamott 


94 "We achieve inner peace when our schedule is aligned with our values." 

- Steven Covey 


130 "Jesus needed time in a quiet place." 


136  "When you spend one hour a day adoring your Lord and never do anything which 

you know is wrong... you will be fine." 

  • Mother Theresa when Nouwen asked her for spiritual direction. 


155 "Sabbath is the holy time when we feast, play, dance, have sex, sing, pray, laugh, tell 

stories, read, paint, walk, and watch creation in its fullness." 

- Dan Allender in "Sabbath" bk. 


180 "Atheism hasn't replaced cultural  Christianity, shopping has." 

  • Jean Baudrillard 


208 "Have nothing in your house that you do  not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful." 

-William Morris, designer 


240 "People who meditate become people of  substance who have thought things out and have deep convictions, who can explain difficult concepts in simple language."-Tim Keller 


KEY CONCEPTS


1 Hurry = too much to do 

Opposite = do what really matters w/strength & joy. 


21 Strike from your vocab: "Oh good, just busy." 

  • When there's too much to do-you have to hurry to keep up. 


28 we need: "slowdown spirituality." 


31 Pre Edison - avg. person slept 11 hours!! 


33 In 60's scientists predicted by 1985 Americans would only work 22 hrs a 

week for 27 wks a year. 


34 Departure from 1950's when cities shut down on Sundays 


35 Losing sabbath culturally = losing a day to lay bare our souls before God. 


39 Tech execs pay for private schools that don't allow devices. 


43 The BK's RESEARCH QUESTION: What is all the distraction, addiction, and pace of 

life doing to our souls? 


46 "Hurry sickness" = toxic (52) 


48-51 

1. Irritability 

2. Hypersensitivity 

3. Restlessness 

4. Workaholism 

5. Emotional numbness 

6. Out of order priorities 

7. Lack of self-care (weight, sleep) 

8. Escapist behaviors 

9. Spiritual disciplines slip 

10. Isolation-disconnected , 


53 “Successful" life = violent war on bodies, children, spirity, communities, earth 


54 Attention > $ ← most precious resource 


69 Time is our universal limitation 


70 Yes = 1000 . no's' 


72 Average American time on TV: 2,700 hrs 

Social media: 705hr 


77 Salvation = soteria (Greek) = healing 


82 Life of Jesus requires lifestyle of Jesus


84 Overemphasis in western church on theology > lifestyle (of Jesus) 

86-7 For our burden- Jesus offers  equipment (ie. a yoke) instead of an escape. The "yoke" in 

NT. also refers to a Rabbi's method of teaching. 


91 Jesus was rooted to the moment-this allowed him to be unbothered by interruptions. 


94 A rule of life centered on slowness, minimalism


124-5 Jesus wasn't tempted after 40 days fasting in the wilderness from a place of weakness 

but rather of strength  That fasting gave him the power He needed 


130 N. T. describes Jesus & quiet times a ton. 


130 When we're busy we need more quiet time & solitude!


133 QUIET → gives emotional healing 


134 Silence = internal & external solitude = Alone with God & your soul 

the most important of the spiritual disciplines 


137 Lack of silence & solitude = felt distance from God seeking intimacy from podcasts & 

devos 


140 Mindfulness = (silence & solitude) - God 


142 Bring back quiet time 


145 Restlessness = infinite desire-finite soul 


SABBATH 


148 Sabbath = to stop = (also) to delight 


150 Sabbath takes preparation & intentionality 

  • saying 'no' to many good things so you can say 'yes' to the  BEST THING

  • sabbath changes every day of the week 


161 Sabbath decision matrix: 

  • Is it rest & worship? If no, it waits.


164 Sabbath = a life rhythm that gives emotional & spiritual life 


168 Sabbath is recognition  that "I have enough" 

  • Don’t  buy, sell, shop, surf the web 


173 Goal: Sabbath = best day of the week 


175 Sabbath as a joyful feast, nap, pray more Sabbath "schluf" 


185 Father of American advertising! Edward Bernays (Frend's nephew) took Nazi 

propaganda & brought it to advertsing 


188 After $175k a year, you either  plateau or decline in HAPPINESS 


191 The last 50 yrs we traded time & $. 

  • We now spend time to get money, instead of the reverse • 


201 Declutter your life:  

Does it add value to life? 

Does it spark joy? 

Too much in small space? 

No longer loved or used? 

Leads or led to disorganization


202 Paul calls Ephesians to simplicity and generosity so they can "take hold of the life that 

is truly life." 


203 Jesus likely wasn't poor, he spent his life as a carpenter and in simplicity.  His garments 

on the cross were gambled over.


204-12 12 Principles to Simplicity 

  1. Consider true cost of item 

  2. Does it oppress poor of hurt earth 

  3. 3 No impulse buys

  4.  Buy higher quality & less 

  5. Share 

  6. 6 Make giving away a HABIT 

  7. Live budget 

  8. Enjoy things you don't own 

  9. 9 Appreciate creation (the outdoors) 

  10. Appreciate simple pleasures 

  11. Call out propaganda in advertisement 

  12. Fight materialism with cheerful demeanor- Joy is best persuasion 


215 Contentment is costly but HURRY costs time, money, conscience & health 


215-6 Paul's statement that he can do  all things through Christ who strengthens him is about 

"learning to be content" SLOWING 


221 Slowing def: making ourselves wait on purpose 


223-28 Slowing TOP 10 

  1. Drive Speed Limit 

  2. Go in slow lane 

  3. Come to a full stop 

  4. Don't text & drive 

  5. Be early & leave phone in pocket 

  6. Get in the long line 

  7. Make your phone dumb 

  8. Get a flip phone 

  9. Put your phone to bed with your kids 

  10. Don't touch your phone till post Quiet time "Win the day" 

  11. Set times for email (9 + 4) 

  12. Set social media time limit 

  13. No TV-or decide on a number (xx hours) 

  14. Single task 

  15. Walk slower 

  16. 1 day a month in silence & solitude 

  17. Journal 

  18. Try mindfulness & meditation Breath scripture in tout 

  19. Take long vacations (8 day sweet spot) 

  20. Eat in more 


244 Make eliminate hurry a game 


A QUIET LIFE 


247 Silence, Solitude, Simplicity, Slowing, and Sabbath = a means to return to God and our 

true selves 


249 "All the best" is in THE PRESENT

For Further Reading:

  • πŸ“˜ Eternity Is Now in Session: A Radical Rediscovery of What Jesus Really Taught About Salvation, Eternity, and Getting to the Good Place – John Ortberg

  • πŸ“˜ Renovation of the Heart: Putting on the Character of Christ – Dallas Willard

  • πŸ“˜ The Great Omission: Reclaiming Jesus's Essential Teachings on Discipleship – Dallas Willard

  • πŸ“˜ Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to Be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature – Peter Scazzero

  • πŸ“Ί YouTube Video: Teach Us to Pray – Week 2 – Jon Tyson

  • πŸ“˜ Operating Instructions: A Journal of My Son's First Year – Anne Lamott

  • πŸ“° Article: "Porn and video games are ruining the next generation of American men" – Ashley Lutz, Business Insider

  • πŸ“˜ An Unhurried Life: Following Jesus' Rhythms of Work and Rest – Alan Fadling

  • πŸ“– 1 Timothy 6:17–19 (NIV) – Bible Gateway

  • πŸ“˜ Letters by a Modern Mystic: Excerpts from Letters Written to His Father – Frank C. Laubach