Showing posts with label sea. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sea. Show all posts

Saturday, May 16, 2026

Kruse's Keys: Read a Marriage at Sea to Live the Unthinkable

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SPOILER ALERT in review.  In 1973 a British couple sailing to New Zealand (with no radios or transmitters) collided with a whale.  Their boat sank and yet somehow they survived, lost at sea, with only a life raft and dingy for 117 days.  Author Sophia Elmhirst not only resurrects this couple’s 50 year old saga but humanizes it in her NY Times best selling book A Marriage at Sea: A True Story of Love, Obsession and Shipwreck.  This is incredible reporting that reads like a novel as she turns a harrowing survival tale into a portrait of a marriage and a broader reflection on escapism and the human spirit.  


Elmhirst writes beautifully as she draws upon a wide variety of sources to bring the readers to a liferaft-side seat as they watch the couple face starvation, thirst, despair, and loneliness.  As I listened to the audible narrator, I started to wonder if they would survive or if this book was re-created from lost journals.  Once they are rescued, however, the book started to lose its power–it felt like a much too long denouement.  It didn’t help either that the husband was not a particularly likable character–I ended up wondering what his wife really saw in him.  The fact that the book didn’t convince me on this gap means that he either was a self-involved miserable person…or that the source material just wasn’t there.  


For Further Study:

117 Days Adrift

https://www.npr.org/2025/07/08/nx-s1-5135663/how-one-couple-survived-a-shipwreck-and-kept-their-marriage-afloat

https://wavetrain.net/2025/08/08/maurice-and-maralyn-bailey-a-marriage-finely-tempered-in-the-misery-of-a-survival-drift/