Wednesday, February 18, 2026

Kruse's Key: Read "Before the Night Comes" to be Horrified and then Inspired to Join the Fight

I first learned about Matt Roper’s work through a friend who is setting up an American arm of Meninadanca to help fundraise and spread awareness about child prostituion/trafficking problem along Brazil’s 2800 mile long BR-116 highway. To date he’s written 4 books about his decades-long journey to set up “Pink Houses” in towns along this highway.  These safe houses are more than that but become lighthouses for young girls who previously had no hope.  


I was recently disturbed to find out that the age of consent in Brazil is only 14 years old!  This legal statute (further) complicates prosecution of sex traffickers and criminals.  As author/journalist/founder Matt Roper discovers, the entire legal system is rigged against these exploited girls who are routinely abused and taken advantage of by older men in these small towns, some who “marry” them or take them as a girlfriend. Roper’s NGO has to fight the cultural norms that find these circumstances acceptable on a daily basis. When one father brings his daughter’s case to the town police sergeant, explaining that his 13-year old daughter is living with a man who beats and routinely rapes her–the police sergeant responded: “she’s got a roof over her head, food on the table, and someone who likes her. You should be glad she’s not on the streets causing trouble like so many other girls her age.” 


These cultural norms come from generations of exploitation and poverty that are so engrained that mothers and grandmothers force their 10, 11, 12 year old girls out to the dangerous truck stops at night to prostitute themselves to bring home a few dollars.  Many of these girls end up in gangs, addicted to drugs, severely injured, and in many cases killed/murdered.


With so many miles of highway, it can all seem insurmountable but progress is being made with each additional Pink House funded and each court case won.  Due to a generous donor, Meninadanca was able to recently hire a legal team to fight the court cases. The book is powerful reminder that EVERY girl has invaluable worth and is WORTH fighting for.  If you’d like to get involved, please shoot me an email, comment or clink on the link!


My review of Matt Roper’s first book is here. 


The KruZoo- Allons-y!: Kruse's Key: Read "Street Girls: Hope on the Streets of Brazil" and have your heart broken and then inspired


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Matt Roper's Other Books:

Before the Night Comes (2024)

Highway to Hell: The Roads Where Childhoods Are Stolen (2013)

Remember Me, Rescue Me (2003)

Looking for book ideas?  

Check out our readings lists from 2025, 2024, 2023, 2022, 2021, 2020, 2019, 2018, 2017, 2016, 2015 and 2014  

Page 136 Transcription: "Most disturbing, though, was hearing the subject of child sexual exploitation spoken with such triviality in the front door natter I overheard in the street. I’d often hear mentioned how someone had taken their daughter or niece on a trip with them, inferring that it was so they didn’t need to pay for the ride, or could exchange her for accommodation or food. Mothers grumbling about how disappointed they were with their daughters, not because they hadn’t done their schoolwork or had stayed out past their bedtimes, but because they weren’t bringing home as much money as they were expected to." 

Context: Roper observes the normalization of child exploitation along the BR-116, where children are often treated as family commodities or currency for basic needs.


Page 137 Transcription: "Incredibly, the desk sergeant, after listening to the father’s pleas, put a hand on his shoulder and tried to reassure him that there was nothing wrong with his 13-year-old daughter cohabiting with her rapist. 'She’s got a roof over her head, food on the table, and someone who likes her,' he said. 'You should be glad that she’s not on the street causing trouble like so many other girls her age.”

My annotation:  horrible

Context: This interaction highlights the systemic failure of local law enforcement to protect minors, viewing abusive cohabitation as a preferable alternative to homelessness.


Page 137 (continued) Transcription: "Oh yes, the man and the girl, they sometimes show up at church together. It’s a bit strange, isn’t it, I mean, the age difference. But he’s an upright man who pays his tithe faithfully." 

Annotation: wow

Context: A local pastor prioritizes a member's financial contributions to the church over the moral crisis of the child he is exploiting.


Page 156 Transcription: "In early 2014 Chris Rogers, a BBC newsreader I knew from my time in London, got in touch, asking me if I could help with a documentary he was making for the channel’s flagship..." 

Context: This marks the beginning of Roper's collaboration with international media to bring global attention to the "exploitation highway" ahead of the World Cup.


Page 159 Transcription: "...hour-long Panorama special, called ‘Brazil: In The Shadow of the Stadiums’, aired on BBC1 a week before the start of the World Cup – with, to my surprise, my name credited as ‘field producer’ in the closing titles – it was the first" Context: The documentary successfully exposed the contrast between Brazil's multi-billion dollar stadium investments and the extreme vulnerability of children in the surrounding regions.


Page 162 Transcription: "'It happens all the time,' one woman told us as she washed her smalls in a metal basin." 

Context: This conversation in Cândido Sales serves as a catalyst for the Pink House’s expansion, as locals confirm that disappearances are a frequent, ignored reality.


Page 163 Transcription: "Back in Medina, among those girls who were bravely taking hold of their own destiny was Maria Lúcia, now 13 and a mother to a newborn daughter. She had always been fiercely loyal to her ‘husband’, a man in his forties who had groomed then raped her..."

 Context: Maria Lúcia’s transition from a victim of grooming to an advocate highlights the mission of the Pink House: empowering girls to break cycles of generational abuse.


Page 166 Transcription: "The scene ended up being one of the most powerful moments in Lytannya’s film, called Esta Vida (This Life). 'I was at my cousin’s house and I went to sleep with my sisters,' remembered Alicia quite matter-of-factly. 'Then some guys came in and raped me. Simply that. They burst in, raped me'" 

Context: Alicia’s matter-of-fact delivery in the documentary Esta Vida underscores how trauma has become an expected, everyday occurrence for many girls in this environment.


Page 187 Transcription: "It was a huge victory, and historic too – the first time anyone had been convicted of violence against a child in the town." 

Context: While a historic legal win, Roper reflects on the insufficiency of a single conviction against a century and a half of entrenched cultural abuse.


Page 200 Transcription: "and some of the girls were as young as 11. He also revealed that, as well as the raffles, one establishment organised weekly bingo nights, with the girls put up as prizes paraded before players before the games began." 

Annotation: horrid

Context: The "horrid" public commodification of children via raffles and bingo illustrates the absolute lack of community protection for the vulnerable.


Page 209 Transcription: "I was only 10 when he raped me. He destroyed so many lives. From my time, just the girls I knew who he abused, there were more than 50." Context: A victim named Samantha describes the mass-scale abuse perpetrated by Joel Cruz, showing how one predator can devastate dozens of lives with impunity.


Page 256 Transcription: "She told how her father, a clandestine gemstone miner, would pass her around his colleagues when she was just 11. How she was only able to go to school because those men would give her books and school supplies in exchange for doing what they wanted with her. ... they were all outwardly upright and respected men in town, community leaders, shop owners, church-goers, family men." 

Context: Julia’s story highlights a double betrayal: by her father for survival and by the "respected" men of the community who exploited her.


Page 299 Transcription: "that even 10-year-olds were not safe." 

Context: During a meeting with company representatives, this realization serves as the "last straw" for advocates fighting against the abuse perpetrated by migrant workers.


Page 311 Transcription: "finally understanding they were no longer alone." 

Context: The introduction of a dedicated legal team (Pryscilla, Luisa, and Antonio) gave the girls their first sense of belonging to a system that actually valued their rights.


Page 312 Transcription: "How can you offer hope to young victims of abuse and sexual exploitation without also giving them the one thing that would truly set them free – justice?" 

Context: Roper concludes that social services alone are insufficient; systemic legal accountability is the necessary "missing piece" for true liberation.


Page 328 Transcription: "flagship Sunday night news programme entitled The Exploitation Highway in which they showcased the work of the Pink Houses" 

Context: National recognition via Brazil’s second-largest network, Rede Record, helped bring the issue to the forefront of the Brazilian public consciousness.


Page 329 Transcription: "ential think tank, the Jose Luiz Egydio Setubal Foundation in São Paulo, placed us among the 10 most innovative social projects in Brazil. ... the dam of the Brumadinho iron ore mine ... had suddenly burst, unleashing a devastating river of sludge that had engulfed everything in its path, killing 270 people and poisoning rivers for hundreds of miles around. ... as reconstruction efforts brought thousands of male workers to the region, they began to see another sinister consequence ... many already bereaved and traumatised young girls falling victim to sexual exploitation." Context: Philanthropic recognition allowed the Pink House to respond to the Brumadinho disaster, where an influx of reconstruction workers created a new environment for exploitation among traumatized survivors.


Page 331 Transcription: "Their idea, Elisa explained, was to train up their drivers to become ‘agents of protection’ on the motorways, who would know how to report and intervene when they saw children being trafficked or exploited. ... they would start with their own 7,000-strong workforce, but their intention was to roll this out to many thousands of other truck drivers over the coming years." 

Context: A massive shift in strategy involving Grupo SADA, training thousands of truckers to act as protectors rather than participants in the exploitation cycle.


Page 333 Transcription: "But there was even more to come. Soon after, we received an invitation to speak about the plight of girls on the BR-116 in the British Parliament. ... later that year, with our fifth Pink House already up and running ... I watched Rany, Moany and Maluiza move a roomful of politicians and dignitaries to tears. The three girls were from Cândido Sales, a place where we had faced so much hostility and opposition." 

Context: In October 2023, survivors from Cândido Sales stood in the UK Houses of Parliament, transforming from victims into international advocates for change.

References & Further Reading


 

Saturday, January 31, 2026

2026 Reading List

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The Playground.  After reading Powers' incredible The Overstory (my fanboy review is here) my hopes were sky high for his 2024 globe-spanning novel on the coral reefs of the Pacific.  I was ready to have my mind blown and expanded on coral reefs in the same way he had down with trees. While I enjoyed the novel, my mind was not blown--I did not set the book down and become a raving lunatic about coral reefs in the way I did trees to the point where I've permanently scarred my children's psyche with my manic exclamations about how incredible trees and tree systems are and the way they communicate and speak and nurture and repair one another...you get the picture. Don't let my unrealistic expectations dissuade you though! PICK UP  A COPY though--Playground is a great book that follows the maybe-intersecting arc of a tech billionaire with a mysterious degenerative disease, his childhood friend turned frenemy and a pioneering female marine biologist set against the backdrop of the Pacific island of Makatea. Powers also drops an AI angle in there which I can't decide if it's distracting or prescient.

Before the Night Comes (Brazil)  I first learned about Matt Roper’s work through a friend who is setting up an American arm of Meninadanca to help fundraise and spread awareness about child prostituion/trafficking problem along Brazil’s 2800 mile long BR-116 highway. To date he’s written 4 books about his decades-long journey to set up “Pink Houses” in towns along this highway.  These safe houses are more than that but become lighthouses for young girls who previously had no hope. The book is powerful reminder that EVERY girl has invaluable worth and is WORTH fighting for.  If you’d like to get involved, please shoot me an email, comment or clink on the link!   My full review is here. 

Hamnet (Audible). Beautiful writing.  Too quick an ending.


Jayber Crow (currently reading).

New Boy (on the list)

Meh
Tomcat in Love & America Fantastica. So do I recommend Tomcat in Love or its philosophical sequel/Trump takedown America Fantastica?  Well, after I finished Tomcat and jotted down some key quotes from it that captured some superb writing, I tossed it in the trash.  It had previously sat on my bookshelf for the last decade unread.  Aside from great technical writing there was little of redeeming value in its pages.  It’s billed as laugh out loud funny, and it is humorous satire, but the overall  narrative describes a sad, disturbed, self-absorbed, unrepentant man’s life.  A man who is unable to holster his own desires, both mental, and otherwise–as the novel wears on, it becomes apparent that the central character is clinically sick. It’s hard to read a novel where there’s no one to cheer for.  I was reminded of Anne Lamott’s advice in her incredible book Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life in which she quotes author Ethan Canin’s seminal advice: “Nothing is as important as a likable narrator. Nothing holds a story together better.”  Read my full review here.

Kruse's Key: Skip Obrien's "Tomcat in Love" and "America Fantastica" Unless You Enjoy Unlikable Narrators

 Check out our readings lists from 2026, 20252024202320222021202020192018201720162015 and 2014  

Tim O’Brien can write.  His sentence and dialogue and paragraph flow masterfully–he’s a quick read–there’s no Faulkner chewing of paragraphs required to digest.  He’s been recognized through numerous awards such as the National Book Award for fiction and France’s foreign book award as well as the James Finnemore Cooper Brooks award.  I recall reading his seminal Vietnam short story collection “The Things They Carried” in high school and being awestruck that someone could write so well. 


But after every book I read, I consider the fundamental readers’ question in life: would I recommend it.  Or, more precisely, for whom would I recommend it?


So do I recommend Tomcat in Love or its philosophical sequel/Trump takedown America Fantastica?  Well, after I finished Tomcat and jotted down some key quotes from it that captured some superb writing, I tossed it in the trash.  It had previously sat on my bookshelf for the last decade unread.  Aside from great technical writing there was little of redeeming value in its pages.  It’s billed as laugh out loud funny, and it is humorous satire, but the overall  narrative describes a sad, disturbed, self-absorbed, unrepentant man’s life.  A man who is unable to holster his own desires, both mental, and otherwise–as the novel wears on, it becomes apparent that the central character is clinically sick. It’s hard to read a novel where there’s no one to cheer for.  I was reminded of Anne Lamott’s advice in her incredible book Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life in which she quotes author Ethan Canin’s seminal advice: “Nothing is as important as a likable narrator. Nothing holds a story together better.”  Note to reader: I had no idea who Ethan Canin was prior to reading Bird by Bird.  Another author to add to the list–a quick research tells me I should start with A Doubter’s Almanac.  


In America Fantastica O’Brien widens his scope and tackles a host of characters–all seemingly without a moral compass.  I suppose he means for the story and the characters to symbolize America’s wider moral decay under Trump’s first term, along with his mythomania take on the concurrent rise of fake news and that symbology largely works.  But with characters that are largely unlikable, it’s hard to recommend the book.  The story was eminently readable–great pacing, and dialogue, and movement–but halfway through I found myself just wanting to get it over with.  If you are looking for high brow left-leaning satire though, this book may be just what you are looking for.   


Key Tomcat Quotes:


Page 18

Does language contain history the way plywood contains a flight“ as we bruised each day of our lives by solo collisions or spirit slashed by combinations of vowel and consonant at a cocktail party say or at a ball game or at your daughter‘s wedding would you feel death slide between your ribs if someone were to utter the name of your ex-husband? Can a color cause bad dreams? Can a cornfield make you cry? Do we radiate language by the lies we lead?… Can a word stop your heart as surely as arsenic?”


Page 158


“each of us I firmly believe is propelled to life by a restless inexhaustible need for affection. What else do we charge off to work every morning or withhold farts or decorate our bodies with precious gems or attention, church or smile at strangers or pluck out body here send valentines or glanced to mirrors or forgive or try to forgive or national her teeth at betrayal or prayer, promise or any of 1 trillion large and small behaviors that constitute the totality of the human trial on this planet, all for love all to be loved”


Then we finally discover this weird ledger thing that the narrator has and this is where you really start to not like despise feel loathsome toward the main character, which we can the novel by not having a likable main character. The only thing that keeps you in it is the idea of that he seems mentally ill this ledger list of not necessarily women who slept with because that is only four but women that he’s flirted with or kissed all organized by various metrics.


169

His love interest Mrs. Cushaw finally discovers his ledger and reads it “privates not the word I mean listen to this handholding’s 421 nuzzling 233 valentines 98 marriages one meaningful cases 1788… The whole thing, Thomas it’s revolting”


Page 174

He uses his flirtations as “innocent dolls” this is part of the problem


181


Here’s Thomas' central thesis: "The trick with women I have learned is to keep upping the ante, lose a hand, double the stakes, lose another, double to infinity like any gambling junkie. The female animal wants it all along dash your first strings, your heart, your spirit, the very breath of your lungs“