Showing posts with label kauai. Show all posts
Showing posts with label kauai. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 15, 2017

Kruse's Keys: Read "Hawaii" to Unlock the Islands Before Your Visit

In 2009, I married my beautiful bride on Poipu Beach in Kauai.  Since that visit, the Hawaiian islands have held a special place in my heart.  During idle moments, I confess to plugging the location of Kauai into job search sites and crossing my fingers for a non-engineering job to pop up.  Since 2009 we’ve returned to Kauai several times and prior to our most recent trip this past summer I decided to finally dive into Michener’s 1000 page tale Hawaii.  


First published in 1959 (the year of Hawaiian statehood), Hawaii definitely comes across a little dated in its style but Michener nonetheless proves that he can craft an engrossing tale as he spans the physical birth of the Hawaiian islands eons ago up to it fight for statehood.  Hawaii begins its narrative with the first impossible ocean-spanning voyages of men and women from Tahiti.
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From there we witness the tribal fight to consolidate power throughout the islands and then see the natives first interaction with New England missionaries.  From there Michener deftly juxtaposes the lives of consecutives generations of earnest but severe missionaries with those of lusty and wayward whalers and traders.  The narrative carries on as we see the immigration of Chinese and Japanese settlers and their eventual integration into the social, economic and political life of Hawaii over the span of two World Wars and an eventual quest for statehood.  


One assumes (with even cursory research) that Michener took a multitude of historical liberties in the writing of this tome but upon finishing it I was okay with that.  Hawaii is an engrossing novel that encourages the reader to learn more about it actual history (I’ve included some links to do just that in a section below.


KEY QUOTES:
  • “In later years, it would become fashionable to say of the missionaries, "They came to the islands to do good, and they did right well." Others made jest of the missionary slogan, "They came to a nation in darkness; they left it in light," by pointing out: "Of course they left Hawaii lighter. They stole every goddamned thing that wasn't nailed down.”
  • “It is difficult to be king when the gods are changing.”
  • “no man leaves where he is and seeks a distant place unless he is in some respect a failure; but having failed in one location and having been ejected, it is possible that in the next he will be a little wiser.”
  • “Why is it, Reverend Hale, that we must always laugh at our book, but always revere yours?”
  • “Patriotism is not a matter of the skin’s color. It is a matter of the heart.”
  • “You love the Hawaiians as potential Christians, but you despise them as people. I am proud to say that I have come to exactly the opposite conclusion, and it is therefore appropriate that I should be expelled from a mission where love is not.”

KEY TAKEAWAYS:
  • Differences between Chinese and Japanese assimilation. At least initially the Chinese were more willing to intermarry with the local populace.  Whereas the Japanese workers held out hope to return to Japan one day and marry someone from their village.  
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  • Very broad generalizations but the Chinese were the first to develop and integrate into the economy through business and trade whereas the Japanese were the first to integrate into the political scene.
  • Notably, the book doesn’t address the other large immigrant/worker populations such as the Filipinos, Koreans, and Puerto Ricans.  
  • Considerable remittances were paid back to homelands by the worker populations
  • There was a very wide variance in missionary experience in Hawaii’s history.  An interesting part of that covered in the book was that of their ministry to lepers on the island of Molokai.  

  • The genetic makeup in Hawaii is pretty interesting--what one might think of as a typical Hawaiian is likely nothing like a pure “Hawaiian” that first inhabited the islands.
  • Statehood was never a foregone conclusion for Hawaii.  There were a lot of “sugar” senators from the continental US that didn’t want the competition--the importance of sugar can’t be understated in the arc of Hawaii’s history..  Additionally, there was a fair amount of racism prevalent that sought to keep the “uncivilized” nation-state out of the Union.  
  • The Dole pineapple that we eat today only came after generations of experimentation and trial and error.  The history of the Hawaiian pineapple alone could fill a book.
  • Palm trees from Madagascar were brought in and planted in Kauai at some point.  This is noted in the book but I haven’t been able to find any other info to verify this on the interwebs.  


KEY REFERENCES:
Those seeking more robust scholarship on Hawaii’s history and it’s immigrant experience could explore the following articles and books:


Saturday, January 3, 2015

Our Wedding Vows--right where we can always find them

Why put your wedding vows somewhere you can find them easily (i.e., a google search away)?  See our yearly RE-reading list page (near the top of this blog) to find out why!

Also check out pretty much the best place to do your registry:










Emily’s Vows

I think the reason writing our vows scared me so much is because there are no words, however beautiful they may sound, that could EVER describe the love I feel for you.  I guess that is why someone came up with the word "love"-to make an attempt at describing this feeling.  So to be as accurate as I can be:


I love you more than "love".

Jack Kruse, you are the love of my life.  You are the reason I believe in soul mates.   You are everything I asked for in my prayers.  And most importantly, you are more than I could have ever known I needed.

And that point specifically is how I am sure today that God brought us together, and therefore I am sure that no man can separate this covenant.

I promise to work every day to be a better woman for you, a better wife, and a better friend.

I know our love will make it through the hardest of times.  I promise to never give up on us even if those hard times seem to never end.  Every day I will love you more than the day before.  All I know is that forever with you just doesn't seem long enough. 

I would like to end with a poem by Anne Bradstreet:

TO MY DEAR AND LOVING HUSBAND

If ever two were one, then surely we. 
If ever man were loved by wife, then thee;
If ever wife was happy in a man,
Compare with me this woman if you can.
I prize thy love more than whole mines of gold,
Or all the riches that the East doth hold.
My love is such that rivers cannot quench,
Nor ought but love from thee, give recompense. 
Thy love is such I can no way repay,
the heavens reward the manifolds I pray.
Than while we live, in love let's so persevere,
That when we live no more, we may live ever.



Jack’s Vows

From the Song of Solomon:

Who is this who looks like the dawn,
beautiful as the moon, bright as the sun,
awesome as an army with banners?

Behold you are beautiful my love, behold you are beautiful.
Your eyes are doves.

You are altogether beautiful my love
there is no flaw in you.

You have captivated my heart my bride
You have captivated my heart with one glance of your eyes.

How beautiful is your love my bride,
how much better is your love than wine.

Awake O north wind, and come O south wind
Blow upon my garden, let its spices flow.

Emily, my beloved, the keeper of my heart, my best friend, the crown upon my head:

Emily I choose you.
And my heart chooses you.
And my soul, my soul cries out to me
that is chooses you Emily. 
And God, He whispers softly, steadily with each beat of my heart
that He chose you, that he made you, as the love of my life,
as the only love FOR my life.

And so today as I am joined to you forever:

Emily I pledge to you, that I will ever stop pursuing you.
I pledge to you that I will never stop courting you.
I pledge to you that you will always be my girlfriend.
I pledge to you that our marriage, our relationship will be
my life's proudest and greatest UNFINISHED work.
Because I vow to you Emily, that I will never stop working,
that I will never stop loving you!

I vow to you that even when times are tough,
even if those tough times stretch to years,
my love for you with push through and that WE WILL persevere.

Emily, I vow to you before our friends, family and God that I will never give up on us.

As we are joined together with God today, I say to you there is no other option that you and I to be together, to stay together.

I pledge to you that I will always be faithful and will always honor you Emily.
I pledge to you that as the years pass by, as our hair grays (or grays more for me), as we grow old together,
that you will always be my standard of beauty. 

I pledge to you that I will pray for you increasingly and without fail.
I pledge to you that I will always protect you (and try my best not to manhandle you). 

I pledge to you Emily that you will always be my number ONE priority.
I pledge to you Emily that you will be my closest confidante.
I pledge to you that I will always be your greatest joygiver. 

And so today, the day we marry, I say that I have a new birthday. 
Today, June 29th, 2009 is the Birthday of My Life. 
Today Emily, I give you my heart, and today "I" die.
Today only you and “we” live on.
Today begins a life that is brighter, that is greater, that is more glorious than anything I could have ever imagined.
Today begins a life chosen for us by God.

And so Emily, I choose you today because my heart knows no other way than to love you completely and totally and purely. 

And today I celebrate that from this day forward, a true miracle grows deep inside my heart, the miracle that is the pure, committed, unabashed joy of your love.