Saturday, January 17, 2015

What we read in 2014

You can see our lists from 20092010201120132014201520162017, and 2018.

We should have kept a running commentary of these books all year long.  Because I was too lazy didn't, this will be a post that we update from time to time.  For our yearly RE-reading list, go here

Last update 17 JAN 2015. 12 FEB 2015. 15 FEB 2015.

The overview:


























This year I made a concerted effort for my yearly reading not to merely be a drunken barcrawl  random meandering of literary tourism.

So for the 2014 list you will see groupings of books: sci-fi, the comanche indians, afghanistan/iraq and the return home, faith, james salter and africa (with a focus on south africa due to Jackson's birth there).

(South)Africa:

Of these 6 books, I would only truly recommend Long Walk to Freedom (began it 2013 but finished it in 2014--my notes here), My Traitor's Heart and Bring Me My Machine Gun (currently reading this one so it technically belongs on the 2015 list). The latter two are nice companions to Mandela's autobiography and they bring the reader through the details of the post-apartheid era.  So does Country of My Skull, however, I found it a little too dense and never made it through the whole thing.

I categorically do NOT recommend that you read anything by Coetzee (e.g., Foe and Disgrace)--he's a much revered South African writer but I frankly just found his stories to be just weird and rather unresolved--not my cup of (Roibos) tea.  Technically I read these two books in 2013 but I included them here for continuities sake.  You can read my thoughts on them on our 2013 list here.

Sadly, Mandela passed away at the end of 2013.  His death--combined with the Long Walk to Freedom book led Jack to write a poem for Macee and Betty about the great Madiba.  You can read it here.

Africa:


Americanah is amazing--Adichie can flat out write as she recounts the tale of a young Nigerian woman living in America.  One unforgettable anecdote is her biting description of the American propensity to immediately give a tour of their home when a stranger or friend pays a visit--an act that could never occur in Nigeria.  My notes on it are here.

I felt cheated reading Cole's Every Day is for the Thief.  I felt like it needed to be one-third longer. The story of a Nigerian returning home after living in New York City reads both as a love story to Lagos as well as the gossiping critique of a disappointed lover.

I liked The Golden Hour.  Moss is an economist by trade and it took guts craft this story of an African coups and the white men who try to save the country.  I've also met Todd before and he's a great speaker.

You can skip the Marriage in Domoni tome unless you are planning to live/visit Comoros.  I enjoyed it from an academic perspective but don't expect a breezy read.

I read Warriors: Life and Death Among the Somalis on the recommendation of Aiden Hartley (who wrote one of the best books on Africa out there).  It's not the easiest read but offers great insight into the Somali psyche.

James Salter:

I only discovered Salter in 2014.

How. Did. I. Only. Discover. James. Salter. In. 2014?!

Salter is easily one of the best writers of the 20th century.  Reading him is like reading Hemingway or Beryl Markham's West with the Night.  He is that good.  His descriptions and similes with leave you floored and your highlighter low on ink.  How did I never read him in high school or college?  I blame the Naval Academy for making me get a Bachelors of Science in English.  All those hours studying Thermodynamics could have been spent reading Salter.

Start with The Hunters, a quasi-autobiographical tale of an aging Korean War ace and then pick any of his others--they won't disappoint.  My notes on A Sport and a Pastime are here.

One of my goals for 2015 is to read everything else he has written.

USNA Graduate List:
Born on the Crest of a Wave and Lean Life

Kehoe's Born on the Crest of a Wave is a mandatory purchase for any USNA grad with kids.  My own loved his illustrations and I look forward to drilling them on this piece of folklore that I memorized back in the summer of 1997.

I will admit that I was skeptical as I began Hollan's hard to categorize fitness story/manual/self-help book  Initially it felt a little gimmicky to dispense fitness advice through a fictional story.  Soon, however, I changed my tune as I realized that his methodology in doing so is actually perfect because the principles he recommends stick with you because you remember little Timmy's story.  BZ Brooks.

Jesus and Family:
 
Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters is on my yearly RE-reading list for good reason.  You want find better advice on how to love, support, discipline and bond with your daughter through the spectrum of her life.  My notes on it are here.

One Thousand Gifts is THE book to read when you find yourself in a valley--or even just in the midst of a tough month.  A thankful and grateful heart can change your perspective on everything.

Jesus>Religion is a book by the "I Hate Religion Guy".  The book is a more nuanced explanation. Whether you believe or not, this book is a worthwhile read--to at least challenge your perceptions of the Christian community and church.


I can't say enough about Unbroken.  If you haven't read it yet I am actually jealous because it's that good.  If you've seen the movie you should still read the book as the movie does not do justice to the incredible life of this man (and it leaves out the latter third of his life).

Sci-Fi-ISH:

I think Sci-Fi gets a bad rap.  The book version of half the blockbuster movies that come out could be classified as Sci-Fi (e.g., Minority Report, Ender's Game, Inception).


My main point here is to introduce you to important authors.  Card is the KING--the man can craft stories that stick with you forever.  I've probably read Ender's Game six times--and then also read the accompanying five (?) sequels/prequels.  He's also written a very haunting book called Lost Boys.

Howey began his writing career self-publishing.  He developed a cult following that eventually exploded into a worldwide phenomenon.  He is one of the rare authors who retained his digital rights, selling only the printing rights.  So you should start with his breakout hit Wool and go from there.

War and Coming Home:
 

Sebastian Junger's eye for detail is equal to his hunger for authenticity in his writing.  Nowhere is this more evident than in his 2010 'memoir' WAR.  Admittedly I am late to the game in reviewing Junger's story of the time he spent embedded in the violent and dangerous Korengal valley but it's not like the US will ever leaving Afghanistan right?

More importantly, Junger's book is not about Afghanistan or the Taliban--these are merely the backdrop for his penetrating examination of the men who go to war (in fact, the larger geo-political questions go (thankfully) unaddressed). 




In dividing WAR into three books--fear, killing and love--Junger lays out his hypothesis that these three emotions (or actions) encompass war for the young men of the United States--or more precisely address the ultimate question of why young men fight and die in war.  You can read the rest of Jack's Twitter Review of War here.

For the Beach:
 

Reading Eggers is easy.  This is a credit to the skill and imagination of the author.  In The Circle, he imagines a Google-Amazon-Big Brother-1984 microcosm that is at time hilarious and frightening.  In Hologram we get a glimpse into the bizarre alternate reality of the middle east and its ridiculous wealth.

White Fire is a classic thriller cum mystery in the vein of Sherlock Holmes.  It's great to pair with the terrifying tale Gone Girl.  

What better way to finish off the summer than with three love stories.  Say Her Name is the sorrowful yet beautiful true story of the author's wife's unfortunate death and ode to remembrance and the its aftermath.  My notes are here.  The Fault in our Stars also deals with the emotional juxtaposition of the impending approach of death and the deep diving soaring sensation of young love. My notes are Stars are here. Finally, The Love Affairs is a biting critique on the millennial hispter-esque predisposition for a Potemkin's village version of love in Brooklyn.  The author has a keen eye for the inner monologue of most 20 something's navigating the dating pool today.  My notes on it are here.

Comanche Indians and Texas:



The Son is one of the stories that plunges you into a portion of US history that you likely only encountered as a page in your history books during high school.  In the book, the life of a Texas patriarch is recounted through two centuries beginning with an adolescent's capture by a band of Comanche indians.  This led book led me to Empire of the Summer Moon, a masterful recounting of the rise and fall of the Comanche indians in the United States.

Other Reading Lists:
THE Africa Reading List

Monday, January 12, 2015

Drummers and flutists--a rahpuhmpum in Tana

      Every Christmas, a group of fine young musicians tours the neighborhood rah-puhmp-puhmp-pumming and whistling away.  Macee and Betty thought it was so special that they came by our house just for them!  Macee's face at the end of the first video is priceless.


Tuesday, January 6, 2015

What's it like? Questions on free-range peeing, embassy life and potholes

Whenever we meet someone living overseas (or even in a out of the way place like say...South Dakota), one of our first questions always is: What's it like?

So I've started a list of exactly those questions concerning Madagascar and living overseas in general. My goal is to answer them all by the end of our two years here (obviously we are writing about what it's like for us living here)

What do YOU want to know?  Let us know in the comments below

THE LIST:

  • What it’s like to live in Madagascar?
  • What it’s like to get mail?
  • What its like to want something right now or on a Sunday afternoon or after 8 at night?
  • What it’s like to have ‘help’?
  • What it’s like to have a chauffeur?
  • What it’s like to work in an embassy?
  • What it's like to reserve a hotel room?
  • What it's like to fly on the national airline AIR Madagascar (also the ONLY airline for domestic flights)?
  • What's it like to not pay taxes?
  • What's it like to buy beef in Madagascar?
We will take a first crack at "What it's like to live in Madagascar" here.  Of note this will be a living post--meaning that we will update it from time to time.



            There’s a constant tension between beauty and ugliness—between wealth and gut-wrenching poverty.  Your driver takes you to work but you pass by poor children digging through piles of trash—you see people urinating EVERYWHERE and ANYWHERE.  But you also see smiles and people laughing  EVERYWHERE—you sit in mind-numbing traffic due to gigantic potholes and zebu-driven carts but you seldom hear horns blaring.

             You see Malagasy men (we have yet to see a woman)  of all ages hauling pousse-pousses (see first picture above) loaded with TONS of materials--bricks--gravel blocks--a stack of foam mattresses 30 feet high--anything and everything.  These super-human feats of endurance and strength are pretty awe-inspiring.

             T-shirts.  One of the favorite parts of my day--I think every family reunion t-shirt from the United States ends up in Madagascar.  Much like the ubiquitous asian character tattoo sported by so many in the US, most of those people sporting these different shirts here likely have little idea what they say.

               You learn about what we call the "Madabeep."  More on that soon.


Saturday, January 3, 2015

Our Wedding Vows--right where we can always find them

Why put your wedding vows somewhere you can find them easily (i.e., a google search away)?  See our yearly RE-reading list page (near the top of this blog) to find out why!

Also check out pretty much the best place to do your registry:










Emily’s Vows

I think the reason writing our vows scared me so much is because there are no words, however beautiful they may sound, that could EVER describe the love I feel for you.  I guess that is why someone came up with the word "love"-to make an attempt at describing this feeling.  So to be as accurate as I can be:


I love you more than "love".

Jack Kruse, you are the love of my life.  You are the reason I believe in soul mates.   You are everything I asked for in my prayers.  And most importantly, you are more than I could have ever known I needed.

And that point specifically is how I am sure today that God brought us together, and therefore I am sure that no man can separate this covenant.

I promise to work every day to be a better woman for you, a better wife, and a better friend.

I know our love will make it through the hardest of times.  I promise to never give up on us even if those hard times seem to never end.  Every day I will love you more than the day before.  All I know is that forever with you just doesn't seem long enough. 

I would like to end with a poem by Anne Bradstreet:

TO MY DEAR AND LOVING HUSBAND

If ever two were one, then surely we. 
If ever man were loved by wife, then thee;
If ever wife was happy in a man,
Compare with me this woman if you can.
I prize thy love more than whole mines of gold,
Or all the riches that the East doth hold.
My love is such that rivers cannot quench,
Nor ought but love from thee, give recompense. 
Thy love is such I can no way repay,
the heavens reward the manifolds I pray.
Than while we live, in love let's so persevere,
That when we live no more, we may live ever.



Jack’s Vows

From the Song of Solomon:

Who is this who looks like the dawn,
beautiful as the moon, bright as the sun,
awesome as an army with banners?

Behold you are beautiful my love, behold you are beautiful.
Your eyes are doves.

You are altogether beautiful my love
there is no flaw in you.

You have captivated my heart my bride
You have captivated my heart with one glance of your eyes.

How beautiful is your love my bride,
how much better is your love than wine.

Awake O north wind, and come O south wind
Blow upon my garden, let its spices flow.

Emily, my beloved, the keeper of my heart, my best friend, the crown upon my head:

Emily I choose you.
And my heart chooses you.
And my soul, my soul cries out to me
that is chooses you Emily. 
And God, He whispers softly, steadily with each beat of my heart
that He chose you, that he made you, as the love of my life,
as the only love FOR my life.

And so today as I am joined to you forever:

Emily I pledge to you, that I will ever stop pursuing you.
I pledge to you that I will never stop courting you.
I pledge to you that you will always be my girlfriend.
I pledge to you that our marriage, our relationship will be
my life's proudest and greatest UNFINISHED work.
Because I vow to you Emily, that I will never stop working,
that I will never stop loving you!

I vow to you that even when times are tough,
even if those tough times stretch to years,
my love for you with push through and that WE WILL persevere.

Emily, I vow to you before our friends, family and God that I will never give up on us.

As we are joined together with God today, I say to you there is no other option that you and I to be together, to stay together.

I pledge to you that I will always be faithful and will always honor you Emily.
I pledge to you that as the years pass by, as our hair grays (or grays more for me), as we grow old together,
that you will always be my standard of beauty. 

I pledge to you that I will pray for you increasingly and without fail.
I pledge to you that I will always protect you (and try my best not to manhandle you). 

I pledge to you Emily that you will always be my number ONE priority.
I pledge to you Emily that you will be my closest confidante.
I pledge to you that I will always be your greatest joygiver. 

And so today, the day we marry, I say that I have a new birthday. 
Today, June 29th, 2009 is the Birthday of My Life. 
Today Emily, I give you my heart, and today "I" die.
Today only you and “we” live on.
Today begins a life that is brighter, that is greater, that is more glorious than anything I could have ever imagined.
Today begins a life chosen for us by God.

And so Emily, I choose you today because my heart knows no other way than to love you completely and totally and purely. 

And today I celebrate that from this day forward, a true miracle grows deep inside my heart, the miracle that is the pure, committed, unabashed joy of your love.

One city, 73 restaurants--Eating out and drinking wine in Antananarivo

The following link is from a former IMF economist (Dr. Schiller) who lived in Madagascar for three years in the early 90's eating and drinking wine at the various restaurants in Tana.  He visited again at the end of 2011 and wrote up this fairly ambitious and expansive list (A-Z 73 restaurants!) that is worth reading.  All the information is not likely to be current but it will surely give those of us who live here some new ideas.  His post also has some nice color and background on Madagascar.

http://schiller-wine.blogspot.com/2012/02/comprehensive-guide-in-alphabetic-order.html
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Schiller also does a nice job delving into the Malagasy wine scene--the only person to have done it that I know of.  At the very least he offers some nice points of departure for the vazaha like myself.
http://schiller-wine.blogspot.com/2010/10/wines-of-madagascar.html
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He also gives a nice endorsement and background/history on the  Clos Nomena label wine (unfortunately their vineyard is about 56 km from Fianrantsoa so we likely won't ever have the chance to visit):
http://schiller-wine.blogspot.com/2011/11/clos-nomena-taking-wine-of-madagascar.html

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